HINTS TO WRITING A KINKY PROFILE

Hint on profile writing *Especially on KINKY SITES
I have been reading a lot of profiles lately. I have noticed so many of them start with phrases like, "I never know what to write here..." I feel sorry for these people because I know they are really trying to reach out. It's almost worse on kinky sites because people really don't seem to know which direction to go...I am going to provide you a short basic suggestion and see if it helps...

Let's think this over...You are writing about yourself, what you are looking for and what you offer in exchange for getting your needs met...THREE PARAGRAPHS...This is not too much, really.

First about yourself:

Let's talk experience.

If you are a newbie then say so. If you have been around forever then say it.

If you have served folks in the past why not say in what capacity? If others have served you, tell how many and for how long.

If you are community active or interested it would be good to know.

If you only have online experience then say it!

If you are looking for a pro then PLEASE ADD THAT!!

AND IF YOU ARE MARRIED YOU SHOULD SAY THAT UP FRONT!!!

If you are willing to travel to be with someone say HOW FAR and at whose expense.

*IF you fill out the questionaires then you do NOT have to put everything you are interested in/curious about/desire in your ad. Just note folks may read it. [If they are into you they will.]

Now let's talk about "What you are looking for":

What characteristics do you want in a partner?

If you are submissive talk about your dream Dom, and if you are dominant what do you require of your slave/bottom/blahblah

Is monogamy a requirement? How about being poly?? [Its pretty much one or the other!]

Is being public or private a requirement and/or inconsequential?

Also talk about what YOU DON'T LIKE in a partner. You may not know why some relationships worked, but you will certainly remember why they failed...[try to not sound bitter though!]

NOW FINALLY - What do you offer in exchange for being this dream person?

Are you into servitude? SAY IT

Are you into pain? SAY IT

What amount of time do you have to commit to something?

*Many folks can only be 'weekend warriors' while others are truly looking to move in or can come by two days a week for the right situation

Conclude the whole thing with a phrase that shows you are eager to make contact like, "Hope to hear from you soon" or whatnot. The goal here is to give people a reason to take an interest in you so they will want to contact you!!

ALSO IT TRULY DOES MAKE A DIFFERENCE IF YOU HAVE AN IMAGE TO POST WITH YOUR PROFILE. If you can't have your face out there, people wonder. Try putting one of yourself in profile...or perhaps with sunglasses on...SOMETHING...what works best? one full body shot DRESSED and one face shot! Cock shots without a face ARE for losers!! [No matter if it is an adult site or not]

Hopefully this little suggestion makes sense,

Lv M