Collars

I have a beef. I need to vent. Here it comes. WATCH OUT FOLKS THIS BITCH IS GOING TO BLOW AND IT MIGHT OFFEND THE FUCK OUT OF SOME OF YOU BUT I DON'T REALLY GIVE A SHIT. This is my opinion is mine alone and not the general consensious [sp?] of The Serpentarium, so don't hold what I say against them. Okay with that disclaimer given, on with the rant...

In the past I made mistakes where I took engagement rings too soon, but I gave those back....I have only once made that mistake where it came to a collar and it was one I accepted -- not extended. This rant is going to be about those who extend and accept them too quickly, untainted by that though...

WHAT THE FUCK? How the hell does one know they want to take on the level of commitment that the collar holds in just a few short months? Lately I have witnessed people running amuck slapping collars on people in days!

It's like they are laying claim on whomever shows an interest without really getting to know them. How do you know the quality of the worship you receive if you don't know if the person bestowing it is of quality or not? How the hell do you judge this so quickly???

AND TO THOSE OF YOU ACCEPTING THESE SITUATIONS: What the hell is wrong with you? Are you so desperate to serve and be loved that you don't take the precaution of getting to know the other person?

To get a collar from me, someone has to show their devotion for over a year...I understand the first year is just a honeymoon period and that true commitment has to be cured over time, like a fine wine. By the time I am open to offer it, the person has already shown me what to expect of them. If they can manage to adapt to my ways and training, along with exceeding MY expectations, then they deserve to be tagged by me. My collar is special and is treasured because it is earned through loyality, devotion and perservance through harder times. WHY ON EARTH WOULD I TRUST SOME RANDOM PERSON TO BE ALL THIS IN DAYS, WEEKS OR MONTHS EVEN?

But I am not just a weekend warrior. I truly have lived this full-time for my life, for my career and for my happiness. I don't get a day off from being a dominant, especially since I have two teenagers still at home! I can't imagine trying to hide this and live vanilla again. The people I commit to have to be able to do the same. For many it's all a fantasy life, but for me it's every single day's reality and those lucky enough to get submerged in mine tend to have a great time while they are...I guess what I am trying to say is that I am just sick of watching the traditions I was taught by much more experienced lifestylers get tossed around like cheap trash!

Call me a bitch, then tell me I am wrong -- I DARE YOU.
M