My wonderful life

Outtatown Kitty rolled in this week on Thursday. We'd made plans with some of the family to all hook up at the S[pring] A[dult] F[un] munch. I spent part of the afternoon picking up a dear friend of the family who we'd decided needed to get out. Our dear RazorKitty came out and opted to come along, since we had even more friends meeting us out there.

All of us have folks we really don't want to run into and had hoped SAF would be a fresh start for stepping back into the scene slowly. Doing it in numbers was mostly about supporting each other through each of our semi-anti-social moments...

I have to say each of us found the experience delightful. At first it was a little overwhelming because when we walked in a bit late so many warm smiles greeted us and hugs abounded. If our entrance caused part of the seat confusion at that point, please accept our apologies. We were actually so happy to see some many loving faces.

While old friendships were only a fingertip away, each of us managed to make a new friend or two. I finally got to meet the young man from FLA who'd been chatting with me about our scene online. His photos do NOT do him justice. My sisters found him quite adorable. They chatted him up all night!!

But still there were conflicts for some of our group. Folks we didn't expect to turn up there did. We managed to keep our people as up as possible and it definately helped that some of their other friends were there to distract and support the hurting friends.

I got a big compliment! The nicest friend of one of my friends [S] told me I am a 'celebrity' of sorts. That's so nice. I felt like blushing.

Friday night was not so exciting. I woke with such extreme pain in my back that I basically spent the day immobilized. We had planned for OKitty to take us swimming at her friend's house but there was no way I could do it. The pain was so bad. I've hurt for years but that day it was the worst it has ever been.

So I sent Will and Okitty on without me. There was not enough clear understanding about return times and plans I had for later. Just a, "We are going early so we can come home early because we know you aren't feeling good" and off they went. So when it was 12:42 am I got a little shitty. No one had called in and the last time Will and I discussed "fairly early" it meant before midnight by my expectations.

When they rolled in about an hour later, I was pissed. I had already cleared the floor, laid out bedding and prepared ropes at opposite corners. They were instructed that was where they would sleep, back to back, bound and uncomfortable...Afterall, in this house 'good kitties get adored while bad kitties get ignored'.

I tucked them in with hissed, angry and thought provoking comments. I climbed into bed and got diaganol [sp?]. I couldn't sleep. Just as I told them, I have never in all my years doing this had to make someone sleep on the floor for their behaviors. My temper was tilted and I promised myself if they completed this as request the transgression was punished/we'd be even again in our perfect imbalance.

Each woke up in pain. Their backs were killing them. They'd each got untied easily enough but the floor was miserable. My response was 'Gee, I am sorry your back hurts. I really understand how you feel.'

We spent part of the day rebonding together. First the two of them did some heated knife play for my entertainment, then they focused on me. They did the stones, cupping and two person massage on me to fix my back. OKitty had some Saturday errands to run. Razor came by. We took a nap together. I awoke to grilled porkchops and greenbeans. The only kitties left in the house were OKitty and Will. We spent the evening just being lazy and it was nice.

She's out the door again, after a fun and playful morning teasing up Will. I taped the whole thing. I have so much footage of them playing around. It's all pretty clean so I can put it out soon as I finish the editing process.

We're heading to a Snake house for hanging out time in an hour. I am about to get all cleaned up. They are going to play D and D and I am going to float in the pool. I am so damn tired after outtatown kitty drops into my universe!!

She's a ball of energy. We love that about her. I wouldn't change anything about this weekend, even if I did get pissed off. Basically I already get 95% of the best 100% when it comes to my kitties, but I am such a spoiled brat that I want not only 100% but really like 115!!

Such a hard life. Really.

Lv M