MALE DOMS/ HERE WE GO AGAIN

Male Dominant/ HERE WE GO AGAIN
Just when I thought I might get through another day without an annoying online approach from a completely inappropriate male, I open my email to a simple hello that sets me off...

Maybe this time I was a little too quick on the trigger...could be because I am in extreme pain because of my thrown out back or it just could be because I am exhausted from insomnia...eitherway, the claws came out quicker then normal today. As usual this is AN UNPROVOKED EMAIL:

At 12:31 today he writes, "hello"

To which I respond with, "howdy-do"

I then go check out his profile. It says he is a 51 male dominant in Spring. He could be someone from Spring Adult Fun or maybe Elite Suite. I have yet to attend either party group because of distance, but am on their egroups and know almost everyone involved in both. He writes about himself:

Seeking , always seeking the ones who will learn and prosper from my control. Houston area. Serious inquiries only.

Okay so he implies one can learn from him. Being big on education in kink I hope this is a good thing, but knowing many of the onliner bullshit I am betting it is rouse. I wait to see if he comes back with anything intelligent to discuss only to get:

At 12:36 he adds to the conversation,"hello to u sexy doll,,again"

Sexy doll??? Seriously does this guy know me?? If he did then he would know I only let dominant males that I trust speak to me endearingly or as they would flirting with some traditional girl. Otherwise they had better approach me as their equal if not superior/elder. I've earned this through my deeds.

I guess my feelings on this are a trigger. I went off in my reply:

Do I know you? If I do then you should be aware of how I feel on this intrusion/distraction without introduction and not overtly offended by my response. If not, you should really read what I am writing to you and process it, please.

Dude, seriously, if this is your flirting on this system you are so going to be ignored by 75% of the population. I browsed your profile and have a few suggestions for you:

A. That bio of yours is WEAK. It says so little about your approach to dominance. It is vague and too simple. Women like dominant males who can communicate and give clear direction. Both of which require a little thought -- you put none into that profile which will make a clever girl not want to waste her time on you!

B. You are listed as a dominant. Yet you are writing to me. This makes NO sense. If you were looking for linking into the community, you might have mentioned it from the get go -- but now with this note, I am certain you are trying to flirt. [You addressed me as -"sexy doll".]

C. If you wrote without reviewing my bio and just wanking off mentally to my pix, then you are making a fatal mistake in progressing with someone on this site to get your kink needs met. Men who don't bother to read the bio of the women they are approaching are too weak to dominate, in my opinion. Not bothering to review the blog is just a disservice to yourself. If you had read mine you would have noticed I don't like to be approached flirtingly by male dominants at all.

This is what I have to pass on to you. Improve your approach -- be it in conversation or on your biography. READ before you bother.


Like I said, I am not feeling so good today. I am ashamed to have used this unsuspecting fool for a scratching post but damn men should learn how to behave. I often have to struggle to understand the gender's inability to communicate on the basic human level to begin with!!

I am really NOT femsuprem but I can frequently understand the frustrations that justify their mindset.

M