2 years

Today is the two year anniversary for the kitty and myself. Hard to believe. It doesn't seem that long ago that he was my waiter at Chili's.

What progress have we made in two years?

Well, we managed to not live together for a year and a half. We have also managed to live TOGETHER for the remainder. Currently we are considering separate residences to add that distance spark back into the mix. [Vanilla tedium is wearing on both of our nerves.]

Our D/s dynamic is stronger then ever. We are heading towards presenting him as a top to all but me. Many people have the misconception that he will bottom to anyone if I just ask -- this is completely untrue. He ONLY likes to bottom to me. Otherwise he'd enjoy beating the crap out of everyone else. I totally encourage this!! [And no, he is NOT service topping me in private. We do NOT screw with our dynamic like that by my design.]

Our complete clarity is still completely intact. We tear down each others walls and look into our souls during conflicts. The communication never ceases to amaze the hell out of me. I never have to explain what is going on with me, he normally knows before me. I love this about him. [Before they all called me high maintance because I needed someone to be able to talk me through things in vanilla land while never giving up on not really participating in it.]

I am still head over heals for him. I think he is adorable almost a hundred times a day. I will miss him when he moves out -- but that is part of why we want to live apart. I am so lucky he didn't listen to his friends when they warned him I am a crazy kinky porno chick...or even more lucky that he thought that made me even hotter!!! [lol]

Lv M