One of my 'missions'

I just don't fucking get it. I have profiles on many adult and social networking sites. They are all clearly written. They are all concise. This is one way I represent myself as MICHELLEFROMHELL online. It's a form of branding.

I write extensive blogs. I provide links to resources and announce my performances and events through them. I post a small portion of images from shoots with credits to those who took them/information of the performance to show what I have been doing and for whom. This allows those with an interest an opportunity to get to know "MICHELLEFROMHELL".

I understand the price for this is the letters like those I post under "HOW NOT TO APPROACH A FEMDOM". In my own attempt to change the world, I try to respond to most of them with more then just a "no". I invest the energy in bestowing advice on how to improve their odds while hunting online because on some level I feel sorry for them. I mean, how pathetic would it be to keep reaching out and being shut down without ever knowing why?

I want people to find the person or people of their dreams, so I give them the reasons someone like me would NOT be interested just based on their approach. As a Dominant I want them learn from my wisdom and experience. I try to be as direct as possible, and sometimes downright rude, but after addressing this issue at least once a week in my blog [which all my profiles tell them to read at the beginning] I begin to become annoyed.

Here is how I explained it to a vanilla man from Conroe on another site. Yes this is the same putz I talked about in yesterday's blog.

The Exchange:

HIM:

email me

[email edited for privacy]@gmail.com

ME:

You didn't really give me any reason to. Why not try drawing my attention with clever banter? Or perhaps peak my interest with promises of princess like treatment? SOMETHING.

Commanding a woman like me NEVER works! Damn you didn't even say please.

What a rude buttnugget you are!~M

HIM:

Im sorry Michelle I just was so attracted to ur profile and pics that I lost my way of thinking

let me try this again

Will the lovely Michelle email me I want to know more about you and see more pics of a beautiful woman like yourself!

ME:

Thank you for the "sorry". If my pictures are what impress you then please go see my images on www.myspace.com/michellefromhell.

If you are interested in knowing more about me, please read my blogs to see how I tend to be...Otherwise, please go through my profile and tell me what exactly you think you have to offer me and why...

M

HIM:

do u not have an email you can email me from without going through friendsite?

not to offend you, but are you a porn actress?

ME:

I do fetish modeling. I do professional Dominatrix work. I am a performance and fine painting artist.

Not to offend you, but don't you think I am still a human being with a life that I allow people to observe but rarely participate in.

And, no, for strangers I do not have an outside email address.

HIM:

how do I become a friend of yours instead of a stranger? you seem like someone that I would like as a friend, and I promise you, u wouldn't feel any different, if you would just stop actin the way that you are acting. How does a person observe the talents and gifts that you display?

ME:

I act the way I act because I am who and how I am. I expect people who approach me to have some sort of conversation they wish to engage in. If someone is approaching me they should be prepared for that, as my profile makes it very clear that I am not looking for anything outside of the descriptions I have provided in my profile.

BUT SOOOO MANY MEN DO NOT EVEN BOTHER TO READ THE PROFILE. I can't fathom why anyone would waste their time browsing profiles looking for potential mates/friends without researching the person when all the information is provided on the profile.

In my opinion it is disrespectful. I took the time to read yours. I know you live in Conroe. I mentioned it in my blog.

I really don't understand. I would never be friends with someone who wasn't willing to listen. Reading the bios is a form of listening. Reading the blogs are a sign the person REALLY wants to know me.

You've done nothing but bother me. I would never be friends with someone like that. Now leave me alone.

YOU ARE NOT GOING TO GET YOUR WAY JUST BECAUSE YOU EXPECT IT.

And if you did look at my blogs you would have noticed I always announce where and when my events are. See how forcing me to be redundant would annoy the shit out of me??

To put it plainly, you aren't the only man in the world who does this shit. I have profiles on over 10 sites. It happens about 30 times a week. After a while the stupidity of humanity begins to sicken my soul.

M



I know I should just block immediately. But that goes against this 'mission' I feel is part of my purpose [helping them see the fault in their choices that undermine their ability to pair]. I get tons of thank yous from women who deal with this constantly online. What realllllly doesn't make sense is there are more women in the world then men...with the odds in their favor what the fuck makes this so damn challenging?

It's because of this I am only accepting new random friend requests on select profile sites. I am keeping one of my kink and one of my vanilla site profiles just for people I know, have a chance of meeting in state or have known in my past. The other twelve sites will all be answered by MICHELLE FROM HELL, but Michelle is taking her life back!!

M