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Insight to a conversation about 60’s TV
Okay, so morning TV is pretty crappy. Actually MOST daytime TV is crappy. One way we cope with this around here [aside from Willbur taking over the TV to play video games] is to watch old episodes of "Bewitched" and "I dream of Jeanie". We both love these two wonderfully iconoclastic characters!

But think about it...These shows were produced during the height of the "women's movement" and during the big push for equal rights. When being a single mom due to the empowerment of divorce was also a major TV issue, these two shows have lead females who ultimately bow down submissively to the men in their lives -- even if they behave passive aggressively on some points to help their men as the ladies deem fit...ANYHOW...

Today we were watching Jeanie. We both love her sooooo much. She's so adorable always running around saying things like, "Yes Master", "Whatever pleases you, Master", "I only want to make you happy", etc. For a S&M household these sentences have a certain joy and delight...We giggle each time she says one...

Today Willbur made some offhanded statement about how we need more women like her nowdays....[Please keep in mind that while he is my PET he is NOT submissive. Naturally he is more of an AlphaSwitch who CHOOSES to put me above him in terms of Dominance. After we are done he will probably be the Dom in all future relationships he enters.] This sets me off...I respond with, "Well, if women didn't have to take care of all the shit men can't seem to manage, and could just relax enough to be able to dote on men, this wouldn't be an issue." Multitasking is the main skill that I see sets women apart from men to begin with...

The medical research shows we multi-task better because we naturally use both sides of our brains...To me this shows in scientific terms that women are naturally more advanced then men...Societially we are forced to learn to multi-task to accomplish ALL our goals as working women and mothers...why hasn't this been expected of men? We were forced to evolve and our brains modified. Do your Darwin here....AND, no, its not about monkeys...[although since their brains have yet to expand to this truthfully it does make MEN closer to monkeys.]

So of course SOME of us [women] feel little respect for the gender who can only use one side of the brain at a time. Come on, how can this NOT make sense?? Truthfully there are MANY women who would love the freedom that comes from enslavement -- choices being made for them, being 'taken care of', blah blah blah -- AND are willing to do whatever to get that desire met; yet most of the ones I know complain they can't find a Dominant Male to meet those needs...

So I put it to you dear readers --

Define to me what you perceive a DOMINANT MALE should be able to do...in terms of running a household...what about in regards to a relationship and the management of...Or is it just about his ability to use the skills of S&M to bring physical pleasure??

Cuz if it's just that last one, you don't need a Dom. YOU need a friggin TOP and those are a dime a fucking dozen.

Lv M

*Ps please keep in mind I am still very sick. If you need any clarification or have any questions to help you answer this you will have to point them out to me. I may not be as clear as normal because I am highly medicated. The steroid inhaler is making me speed my friggin brains out and I am talking Tylenol PM to counterbalance the affects. Speed balling probably is the wrong time to write -- lol, Lv M